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One Grindr user Jeremy Tang told au that a curt response to his request for pics from one guy got straight to the point: "Not if you're Asian bro," was the reply."It was probably the very first time that it was in-your-face racism, which I have hardly experienced before," he said.People embrace neat descriptions of what tribe they belong to, like "twink", descriptions of "masculine" personalities, "toned" bodies and what sexual positions are enjoyed.But as Denton Callander of UNSW's Kirby Institute notes, it's an approach that applies the same logic to dating as you would to a Google search.Did you see me and think "She has far too high an opinion of herself, she needs bringing down a peg or two"? I've already lost 15, and I've a stone and a half to go. F** no.*I'll never see or hear from you again (you may feel the need to respond to this blog. There's nothing you can say that will make me think that you're not a disgrace to your gender).I have to ask - we all know the internet is a dangerous place to be a woman with opinions (I discovered this first hand when I ventured a response to those obnoxious bloody adverts). What truly concerns me, the real reason I'm responding so publicly, is the fact that you have a 13 year old daughter. Give her the tools to develop a bomb-proof sense of self-esteem so that if (I'll be kind.You stirred a dormant fear that every woman who was ever a teenage girl has - that it doesn't matter how funny you are, how clever, how kind, how passionate, how loyal, how determined or adventurous or vibrant - if you're a stone overweight, no one will ever find you desirable. I don't look like Charlize Theron, and that's fine - I look like me, and I like myself (I'm sure I'd like Charlize Theron, too if I ever met her. You may think are all my profile pictures are "FGASs" (That's Fat Girl Angle Shots - pictures from angles that slim and flatter the girl.Because men only ever use candid, brutally-lit, unfiltered pics). And I'm pretty upfront about who I am: I describe myself as a woman who loves pizza, and include links to my Instagram page, where I have the #everybodysready bikini shots I took on my 30th birthday.
We could be amazing friends, we could flirt and joke and adore each other and... I would marry you like a shot if you were a slip of a girl because what you have in that mind of yours is utterly unique, and I really really love it. Michelle said the message made her burst into tears.
"If he can send that message to a woman whom he barely knows so thoughtlessly he obviously hasn't made the connection that somebody could treat his daughter that way," she said.
People from all over the world have sent her messages of support thanking her for writing the letter.
"We need a frank and honest conversation about body shaming.
WHEN it comes to hook-ups, it seems people just want to get straight to the point.
"I was quite shocked actually how people can be so racist." The 27-year-old, who has used Grindr for almost four years, believes most of the racism on Grindr is subtle, although some profiles do list preferences for "no Asians" or "Asians only".